Let me begin by stating the obvious. These past few months have been incredibly stressful and beyond surreal for everyone. We’re all just trying to get through the days with some shred of sanity. The last thing we need to do is compound each other’s pain. Most of us are guilty of insta-triggering as our worst anxieties manifest before our very eyes. Understandable, but hurtful when everyone’s already teetering on the brink.